Aural Massage - Lick Him!

Being squeamish isn't an option. You need to get him on his front, and tease him to the point where he will let you do just about anything. Promise him (and keep it) that you won't put anything in, and you won't try to touch his prostate! That must be a firm rule, or he won't relax. Then lick him, massage him, stroke him and caress him until he is gagging for it. Then, lick his anus and all the surrounding areas. Use your hands to fondle his balls and perineum, but leave his cock alone (it will be underneath anyway).

Keep letting him enjoy the sensation of your tongue, and he will realise that its not so bad after all. Then, try going a little further. Licking is the best way to kindly introduce your man to the pleasures of the anus.

Use your woman's intuition to guide you in your anal experiements. Always be gentle and treat him as you would like to be treated down there. He will appreciate your efforts.hopefully.eventually. Happy playing!

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