Straight Womans 's Fact Sheet

As most of us know, our men can be a tad butt-shy. Nobody blames them, but it's about time they loosened up a little and left the gay jokes back at school where they belong. There are some very excellent reasons why a man should use prostate massage as part of his sex life and health regime, and he may not know about them.

Let's start with the basics Prostate massage keeps the prostate healthy, helping to prevent disease and waterworks problems. This can mean problems and pain urinating, impotence, partial impotence, premature ejaculation, and myriad other sexual dysfunction issues that will, in all likelihood, affect your man at some point in his life. This then affects you because guess what? You have to deal with him!

Now for the sex bit. Think of this: your deepest g-spot orgasm which wracked your entire body and left you a quivering heap and compare it to the itty bitty tingle of a lesser beast. This changeability in orgasms is because our g-spot is actually very similar to a man’s, and we can ejaculate too. But, we are not talking about us; the comparison is between what is commonly* referred to as a ‘g-spot orgasm’ and a small clitoral - or in a man’s case, penile - orgasm. Obviously not all clitoral orgasms are small by any means, but for the sake of illustration, let’s use your smallest. 

Male G-Spot Orgasms   Men don't normally have prostate fuelled g-spot orgasms, because the focus is always on their penis (and they are afraid to put anything inside their bottom). Penile stimulation isn't the only way to pleasure a man, and believe me, once they start having g-spot orgasms, they will be entering the next realm of sexuality and won’t want to stop. A man's sex life doesn't begin and end with his penis, despite what we are all bought up to believe and what many men think. 

Where you come into it is either to convince him to share in this deeper sexual connection with not only himself, but with you, or to simply enjoy it with him if he is already willing to try. Prostate massage with a partner is infinitely more satisfying for him than when he is alone. You can trigger deep orgasms in him via the prostate that he has probably never had before. Ever! Now, if that doesn't make you feel powerful and greedy to be his first at something he will never forget, then I don't know what will.

Hygiene  Yes there can be some icky bits, but with proper care - douches are inexpensive and very effective - there should be very little or no mess or accidents. If you can get over the whole 'ass' thing about it, you are on the right track. It's not that hard if you just try!

Men’s Sex Toys   Men’s sex toys usually involve the penis – cock rings, faux vaginas, etc.  The difference between those men’s sex toys and the Nexus men’s sex toys – male g-spot massagers – is the use of the male g-spot.  These men’s sex toys are not dildo’s and shouldn’t be treated as such.  They are highly specialised devices used to stimulate the male g-spot.  Men’s sex toys have come a long way, and Nexus and Pleasure2me have bought men some of the worlds best men’s sex toys – the Nexus Excel, Vibro (anal vibrators), Titus, Neo, Pods, Gyro, Glide and Duo (unisex sex toy), plus the Pleasure Machine and Pleasure Machine 2D which can be used on women or men. 

Nexus Sex Toys and Women   It may also pay to remember that the Nexus sex toys can be used in females for extra pleasure and different sensations in your body. Try it out yourself! Anal vibrators/vibrating prostate massagers like the Vibro can be used on women or men.  Anal vibrators/vibrating prostate massagers can add a little extra something special to the anal sex experience, with the anal vibrators being versatile for use in many ways.  If you have never used anal vibrators or vibrating prostate massager before, try the Vibro on yourself and your man.  The settings of the Vibro anal vibrators/prostate sex toy can be matched to your preferences, and has a slimmer shaft for comfort.  Vibro anal vibrators/prostate sex toys make great gifts, and are available in special gift boxes or multipacks. 

There is also a forum to help everyone with tips and tricks, so please feel free to browse, ask questions, or answer someone else's.   

Happy massaging!
The Pleasure2me.co.uk Team 

*There are some schools of thought who reject the idea of there being a difference between a female g-spot orgasm and a clitoral orgasm, stating that an orgasm is an orgasm; there are not two separate ‘types’.